Mind = Blown

The same girl who I mentioned in my 2nd post on this blog took the step back in the summer that most women take which lead to many of us "good guys" getting angry and confused.
 

She got the guy she wanted at that party but it didn't turn into a classic Hollywood tale of childhood sweethearts (wow that's cringe isn't it?). I refer to this guy now as "the prick". The prick, to be fair, wasn't actually in a relationship with her but she was led on like a lamb to slaughter. He only went and cut off all contact with her while going after some other girls.

Heard that story before?

As you would suspect, she was pretty hung up on him and she told me how she would randomly burst out crying and that he was all she could think about. She knew that he was an idiot and that he's no good but she still wanted to be with him.

I've never backed away from my claims that I don't understand girls so...
 

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN WHY GIRLS DO THIS THING AGAIN AND AGAIN... AND AGAIN?!!

Like come on, it doesn't make any sense! Is it just common to fall for someone just like that? I know that's a thing that happens when you're in like year 6. You know, the days when you would be in complete love with someone the day after you get into a 'relationship'... Relationships that were lucky to last a couple of weeks? Good times huh?

Now, it seems to me that some girls fall too hard for guys who are gonna take advantage of them and/or not give them respect. Because of this, they like to think that the guy can change. He'll turn from a heart-breaker to the best boyfriend ever, just like that.

You and me both know that's not how it works. Fair play for being an optimist but there's a difference between positivity and blind hope. Nearly every girl in that situation is blindly hoping for a miracle. To be honest, sometimes it can happen and things do work out for the better.

But that's rare. I know she's not the first girl to try it and she definitely won't be the last. My gut is telling me this won't have a happy ending though (and kids, ALWAYS trust your gut instinct).

It just seems too cliché to be actually happening in front of my very eyes. And then it leads to girls being closed up to everyone else cause they think all guys are like that.

But guys, come on... Let's not "hit it and quit it". You want to go around and bang whoever? Fine but don't do it to lead a girl on. Be honest about what you want and if you're gonna be friends with benefits or some complex sh*t like that then everyone's happy.

If you think I've got the wrong end of the stick with this one, then just explain it to me. Please. This is mind-blowing.

This pretty much sums up how I'm feeling...

But then again, do I actually expect anything less when it comes to girls?